When we share our lives online, we open ourselves up to criticism from others. This is something a young couple, who frequently posts photos of themselves, has experienced firsthand. However, their clever response to the negativity serves as a powerful reminder to stay true to oneself.
The story of Matt and Brittany Montgomery is one of those seemingly common yet extraordinary tales. After meeting and falling in love, they quickly began building a life together. What sets their story apart is the noticeable difference in their sizes—Matt is much larger than Brittany.
Brittany has struggled her entire life to feel accepted. Her controlling parents didn’t provide the sense of security she needed, often leaving her feeling empty after their conversations. This led her to feel self-conscious about her appearance. As a plus-size woman, she encountered two types of men: those who were attracted to her curves and those who wanted her to lose weight. Her disappointing dating experiences made her consider giving up on love altogether.
But fate had other plans. In August 2020, Brittany met Matt Montgomery online. Despite their physical differences, their connection was immediate and profound. “At first, I was hesitant,” Brittany admits. “In past relationships, guys have threatened to break up with me if I didn’t start dieting or try to lose weight. It affected my confidence, and at one point, I even tried to change my size by working out.”
Despite these doubts, the couple quickly realized they were in love. Matt proposed on January 30, 2022, and they began planning their future together. Though comfortable with each other, they were aware of how others might perceive their relationship.
“People comment on Instagram and suggest that I’m not big enough or man enough for her,” Matt said about the remarks on his social media posts. “I do notice people staring when we walk down the street.” Despite the judgment, they remain deeply in love, undeterred by others’ opinions.
Matt has struggled in past relationships with women of “normal” size, but with Brittany, he knew he had found his soulmate. He is devoted to making her happy, loving her for who she is. “You are worthy, you are deserving of infinite love every single day and more,” Matt recently expressed, showing his affection without reservation. “I can tell we were meant to be together by the way you look at me and feel the same way I do about you.”
In a powerful statement, Matt has shared photos of himself and Brittany alongside the hurtful comments they’ve received, showing that their love is stronger than the negativity.
