We open ourselves to criticism when we share our lives online for all to see. This young couple, who frequently posts images of themselves, has faced harsh responses. However, their clever reply to the criticism highlights the importance of staying true to one’s beliefs.
The story of Matt and Brittany Montgomery is both common and extraordinary due to their unique characters. They met, fell in love, and quickly began their life together.
While their story may seem familiar, there is a notable difference: Matt is significantly larger than Brittany.
Brittany has struggled her whole life to feel accepted. Her controlling parents did not provide her with a sense of security, often leaving her feeling empty after their conversations. She grew to dislike her appearance and felt self-conscious. As a plus-size woman, she encountered two types of men: those attracted to her curves and those wanting her to lose weight. Her dating misfortunes led her to consider giving up on love altogether.
But fate intervened when she met Matt Montgomery online in August 2020. Despite their physical differences, their spirits were deeply connected. Brittany initially hesitated, recalling past relationships where men threatened to break up with her if she didn’t lose weight. This affected her confidence, and she even tried exercising to change her size.
Nonetheless, they fell in love. On January 30, 2022, Matt proposed, and they began planning their future. Although comfortable with each other, they were aware of how others might perceive their relationship. “People comment on Instagram and suggest that I’m not big enough or man enough for her,” Matt shared regarding remarks on his Instagram photo. He also noted people staring when they walked down the street. Despite the criticism, they remained devoted to each other.
Matt had previously struggled with relationships involving women of “normal” size. He realized Brittany was his soulmate because of how she made him feel. He loves her for who she is and strives to ensure her happiness. He recently expressed his unwavering love by telling her, “You are worthy, you are deserving of infinite love every single day and more. I can tell we were meant to be together by the way you look at me and feel the same way I do about you.”
By captioning a picture of them with the offensive remarks made about other couples’ images, he showed the depth of their relationship and his love for her. It was a powerful rebuttal to their critics. They are working to normalize relationships between individuals of different sizes. Brittany expressed her hope for mixed-weight relationships to become more common and accepted.
The couple recently announced that they are expecting their second child, Lakelyn, in September 2023. We wish them all the best.
